A: Yes, I’d like to recommend to you the greatest “self-help” book ever written: the Bible! Every other self-help book will only give you the author’s ideas, but the Bible gives you God’s wisdom on how to live. Can you think of anything more important?
What will the Bible tell you? It will tell you first of all that God created you — and He created you for a purpose. What is it? His purpose is for you to know Him and live for Him, by making Him the center and foundation of your life. When we leave Him out of our lives we drift through life without any lasting purpose — but when we know Him, our lives are complete. Jesus said, “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10).
But the Bible also will tell you that something is wrong with the human race — and that “something” is sin. We have chosen to go our own way and leave God out of our lives, and when we do, we end up in confusion and turmoil. But God loves us, and He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, into the world to take away our sins. All we can do is respond by giving our lives to Him.
Finally, the Bible will tell you how to live — not just following a set of rules, but asking God to guide you. Don’t depend on the fallible words of men, but by faith turn to Christ and accept Him as your Savior and teacher and guide.
Q: My husband and I traveled in Europe for the first time this summer, and we were amazed at how empty the churches were, even for Sunday services. Is religion dying out in some parts of the world? Are we headed the same way? — Mrs. N.W.
A: It’s true that some parts of the world (like much of Europe) are becoming less religious, in spite of their deep roots in the Christian faith. It’s not universally true, however; in other parts of the world (such as Africa), thousands are coming to Christ every day.
Why has unbelief grown in some places? No doubt many reasons could be given. Sometimes it’s because Christians have failed to share their faith with others. Sometimes it’s because of attacks on the Bible and its message (including its call for moral purity). I often think of Isaiah’s words: “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness” (Isaiah 5:20).
But often it’s because people have become preoccupied with material comfort and success, believing the only thing that matters is life right now. They’ve become secular and materialistic, never thinking about God. Yet down inside, their lives are empty, because secularism can’t satisfy the deepest yearnings of the human heart.
Can this happen here? Yes, of course it can. We see things happening in our society that we could never have imagined a few decades ago. Pray for our churches and their members, that they may boldly proclaim Christ. Pray too for yourself, that God will help you be a witness for Christ to those around you. May the Apostle Paul’s words become true of us: “I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes” (Romans 1:16).
Send your queries to “My Answer,” c/o Billy Graham, Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, 1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, N.C., 28201; call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM, or visit www.billygraham.org.